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  • Writer's pictureRachael Shaffer

Soul Mate Synching

"I have found the paradox,

that if you love until it hurts,

there can be no more hurt,

only more love."

~Mother Teresa

Your incarnation at this time is not by chance and not insignificant. You're sustaining a unique frequency that only you can maintain here, and it's required for the healing of this planet. As you experience more and more on this plane, you begin to rule out who you are not and recognize what you're truly capable of. The universe, your angels, guides, and higher self will never give up on you and your soul's mission in this lifetime. What does this have to do with soul mates? More than you may realize.

For those of us who are on a healing path, we go through a phase of accelerated growth and learning, where we seem to synchronize with people, places, and events. This time may feel like a tunnel, where people, opportunities, ideas, options, and experiences flood through without much permanence, but with major impact. If we allow any attachment to these passers-by or ruminate on previous events, it pulls our focus from the direction we are intended to go. During this time, we will have contact with many soul mates (platonic as well as romantic) for the purpose of karmic resolution, expansion, and learning on the soul level. Through this process and as we near the end of the tunnel, our purpose is like a light that shines brighter and brighter until there is no doubt what we are meant to be and do in this incarnation.

Most people prefer to live in the tunnel, and that's where they remain for their entire lives. It may seem ridiculous that someone wouldn't just keep moving forward, but the fear of the unknown and the comfort of certainty oftentimes trumps the potential pleasure, joy, and fulfillment of a purpose-driven life. You have a unique message to impart and a skill set that will uniquely represent and deliver it. It can be terrifying to feel like we are being pushed into our greatness, so many of us resist that process and refuse to move toward the light. That decision will ensure that you will continue to go through the hardships of the karmic phase of learning and growing, and you will only come to regret not fully embodying your message and purpose.

There will be a theme in all of the obstacles and burdens that you've known. This will be your message to the world. For me, personally, I felt completely rejected and alone as a child, misunderstood, and unworthy of love. After a tremendous amount of healing and growth, it brings me immense joy to now bring people the message that they are not alone, to give them a feeling that they are heard and understood, and to support them on the path to their destined greatness with love and compassion. I don't just do so in my healing work, but in the way I live my life. I carry that message wherever I go. In the same way, you have a message that you are meant to embody, no matter what your occupation. The amount of time that it takes you to find the message and the means to deliver it will give you a clue as to where you're at in your incarnation cycle.

When we're on the other side of that tumultuous karma balancing, hard lesson learning, soul mate encountering tunnel, relationships and life in general have far fewer dramatic ups and downs. The lessons and obstacles become much more manageable because we are awakened and aligned to a higher calling and way of being. Our relationships will reflect this alignment and the challenges will resolve with greater ease when we are living in a heart-centered way. Also, as many souls are reaching a point in their development that ends their cycle of incarnation (meaning this is their last earthly lifetime), they are more commonly incarnating with their twin flame. More on twin flames next time. Have a wonderful week!

Warmest Wishes,


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